Selling Your Home During Divorce or Separation: Consent vs. Court Order
The decision to sell your home after a separation or divorce is never easy. Financial matters often become one of the most contentious aspects of a relationship breakdown. As someone who has worked extensively with couples navigating this difficult transition, my goal is to provide clarity and guidance to help you stay in control and emerge in a stronger position.
Why Consent is Better Than a Court Order
In my 35 years as a real estate agent in the Eastern Suburbs, I witnessed firsthand the added strain couples face when court orders dictate the sale of their home. Selling by court order often prolongs the process, increases costs, and intensifies stress for everyone involved. That’s why reaching an agreement with your partner, when possible, is almost always the better option.
Making the Sale a Priority
Selling your home should be a shared priority, regardless of how the proceeds will ultimately be divided. Achieving the best possible price requires clear communication and mutual agreement on key factors like timing, marketing strategy, and reserve price.
When emotions are running high, this can feel daunting. But with the right support—from a skilled family lawyer to an experienced real estate agent who understands your unique situation—you can simplify the process and reduce conflict.
Tips for a Smoother Sale
Choose the Right Family Lawyer
Not all lawyers are the same. Look for one who is not only skilled in family law but also understands the emotional toll divorce takes. A good lawyer will work to minimize court involvement and focus on helping you reach amicable agreements.
Hire an Agent with Divorce Experience
Selling a home during a divorce requires more than traditional real estate expertise. You need an agent who is sensitive to the emotional and legal complexities of the situation. This agent will act as a neutral party, keeping the process professional and ensuring buyers are not discouraged by any underlying tensions. Avoid hiring friends or family members as your agent, as this can complicate matters and potentially harm the sale.
Why Work with Me?
I’ve walked in your shoes and understand what you’re experiencing. Before founding Australia’s leading family law website, Aussie Divorce (visited by over 11 million people), and publishing the book This is Your Divorce, Not Your Lawyer’s, I spent decades helping couples sell their homes. My knowledge, empathy, and real estate expertise allow me to guide you through this challenging time with professionalism and care.
Moving Forward
Divorce is a difficult chapter, but it doesn’t have to define your future. By taking a collaborative approach and surrounding yourself with the right professionals, you can navigate the process with less stress and more confidence. If you’re ready to discuss the next steps in selling your home, I’m here to help.
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